This weeks quote is from the The Ice Queen: A Novel by Alice Hoffman.
“What is the difference between love and obsession? Didn’t both make you stay up all night, wandering the streets, a victim of your own imagination, your own heartbeat? Didn’t you fall into both, headfirst into quicksand? Wasn’t every man a fool and every woman a slave?
Love was like rain: it turned to ice, or it disappeared. Now you saw it, now you couldn’t find it no matter how hard you might search. Love evaporated, obsession was realer; it hurt, like a pin in you bottom, an stone in your shoe. A morning phone call filled with regret. A letter that said ‘Dear you, goodbye from me’. Obsession tasted like something familiar. Something you’d known your whole life. It settled and lurked; it stayed with you.”
I’m not so sure that I agree that obsession is longer lasting, it’s just results in more intense feelings for what is usually a shorter period of time. Love morphs from passionate obsession into something softer and longer lasting - if you’re lucky!
What do you think?
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1 Mr. B2B // Jan 22, 2008 at 4:12 am
I think you’re onto something here.
had this same discussion with my girl and she said….
ok, we said love is deeper than just an obsession
it grows…
An obsession kills…
first time here.
so far, so good
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